THE PRODUCTIVITY OF GOOD AND BAD MARRIAGE!

FIFTEEN WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED

1. You must not get married because of lust

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight, sudden love)

3. Liking the idea of marriage

4. The fear of remaining unmarried (my friends are all married, my sisters are all married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Escaping being jilted (if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage.

8. If you use marriage as an escape route! [etc:- am tired of mom and dad] especially, lonely ones - sooner or later u jumping from fry pan 2 fire.

9. Having PITY... (Feeling sorry for the Man or Woman)

10. Foolish Expectation...... [Marrying an Unbeliever & expecting him/her to change! especially if they don't change before you marry them]

11. Beauty or Handsomeness.. [The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up!!!!!!], Let s him or her see you as you are now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY!!! [Just because you got pregnant accidentally doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection [I must marry someone from my town, etc...]

14. To satisfy your Parent.

15. To hurt your Parent!

WE HAVE TWO TYPES OF HUSBAND:

[1] WICKED HUSBAND,

[2] A GODLY HUSBAND: The choice is your's Traits of a wicked husband

A] Hard Husband:- He is Unbending, Unyielding, Can't be corrected, Arrogant , Stubborn, would beat up your mom, has no fear, no honour and very difficult 2 live with

B] Mean husband! Perform very well sexually but when it comes to responsibility, they are unavailable

C] Bachelor Husband:- a single married man.

D] Acidic husband..:- very hot tempered, abusive, especially:-Sit down! come here!, No nonsense!, No play!

Always barking, his house is like a military camp,

He is like a Lion, Some of your parents are like that.

E.] Slave Master husband:- [Women must be seen and not heard, just be a baby making Machine!, Cook, Iron...seeing a woman as a slave....etc. those men would pile up their dirt waiting for the woman! , IN His home, his siblings are above his wife

F.] General Husband: - has chains of girlfriend, anything in skirts, even their wife younger sister

G.] Dry Husband: - No closeness to his wife, no romance, no kissing, his wife must even knock before entering the bedroom: Lol, very difficult to talk to, would abuse their wife in front of visitor.....

H.] Panadol Husbands: - Exploit his wife for his own gain, They use their wives as medication, as soon as they are okay, they leave her! Use her document to gain a permit then zoom off!

I.] Parasite husband: - Will not work! Does nothing at home, watches TV! Wash clothes? No way but can spoil the clothes.

J.] Baby Husband: - Age has nothing to do with this category..He beats his wife, rejects food because he is angry...Will never assist in domestic, never has a sorry in his vocabulary, but will talk, talk, talk, he keeps malice with his wife for weeks., He threatens to push off his wife at any slightest provocation, he compares his wife to his girlfriend, Nobody can know his where about., He does not love his wife but pretends., he reports his wife to public, invites his mom, dad to come settle , call her several names...he loves his mom more than his wife., Extremely critical until his woman looses self esteem! Ask for strange sexual position... lol... put your head on d floor, raise your legs...you are a local girl! NO APOLOGY IN HIS VOCABULARY.

YOU CAN ONLY MARRY TWO TYPES OF WIFE!

[1]: Godly Wife

[2] Wicked Wife

A] Dictionary Wife: - She does not welcome other's opinion.

B] Boxing Partner wife...She contest for leadership! She has timetable,:- She sees her husband as her rival!

C] Headmaster's wife: - she is richer, proud, arrogant and stubborn, uses her financial power to disobey

D] Party Wife:- Only pleasure! Weekend? She is gone! She is highly social, very pampered, expects to be treated like a leprosy patient!, very fragile , sophisticated, threatens to swallow poison even in front of her husband.

E: - Dustbin wife: - extremely dirty.

F: - ADC WIFE: they have zero tolerance to any woman close to their husband, they love men who are private, sneek on him

G: - Acidic wife:- always ready for fight! When she talks ,u feel like committing suicide!

H:- Office Wife:- hands function of the wives to the house maid

I:- Grandmother's Wife:= completely ancient in thoughts and looks...EX, no sex in d afternoon because the child will become an albino! lol

NOTE:- You cannot find a correct or Perfect partner outside God!

Some people get married and later stay silent and cry!

There are TEN TYPES OF MARRIAGES.....

A] Neglected marriage: - Couples have no time to maintain, they too busy.

B] Actors/Actresses: - In the public, they hold hands, in d house, always quarrelling.

C] Intruders: - Third party has taken over!

D] Shallow Marriage: - based on physical attraction, money, beauty... Sex:- That’s why it becomes a problem when she adds weight.

E] Broken Marriage: - they are just there! Called marriage of convenience because of what people would say.

F] Troubled Marriage:-

G] Wrong Marriage: - based on lies, and stealing.

H] Inherited Marriage: - maybe based on death~~

I] Marriages with bad foundation:- Under these are some categories.

(1) Sex b4 marriage is a bad foundation, not prayed

2) Based on an accidental pregnancy is also a bad foundation.

3) Forced marriage

4) Child marriage

5) Based on demonic prophesy

6) Based on physical attraction.

7) That are polygamous in nature is a bad foundation

8) Covenant foundation is a bad.

*Note My Beautiful Hrts:

J] Growing Marriage...:- Only few women are enjoying this marriage, doing all things to make it work...its d ordained one designed from heaven.

In choosing a Godly Marriage? FACTS.

1) Instruction for godly marriage must come from God.

2) Decision of Marriage must not come from the flesh.

3) Marriage is not for Boys and Girls. But for a Man and a Woman.

4) B4 thinking of marriage, you must be PHYSICALLY, MATERIALLY AND SPIRITUALLY matured. [Make sure you have something you can feed yourselves with before inviting another mouth.]

5) Abomination to befriend and marry an unbeliever.

6) Destiny must come before PARTNER!, discover your purpose/ destiny. That’s your mission here on earth.

7) It’s a lifetime contract, therefore, do not rush! That’s the real truth.

The devil battles against a good match.

It is dangerous to give your body to a man before you are married to him.

The choice of a life partner is the most critical part of your life.